February 2012
Passive Agression Toward the Self →
psychotherapy:
via Psychology Today:
Are you—unawares—a mental and emotional masochist?
In self-sabotage you “act out” internal conflicts by first moving toward a goal—then retreating from it. “I can do it” is offset by “I can’t do it.” “I want it” is overridden by “No, I don’t want it.” “I deserve it” countermanded by “I don’t deserve it.” The net result of such an ambivalent—or...
52hearts:
Let’s meet again why don’t we? And start like strangers that seem too strange for one another, but still, for some reason, drawn to one another like we used to be, like it was in the beginning. Let’s meet again in a few months and sit across from each other on the subway and seem familiar to one another and stare at each other like we once knew one another from some other life time ago...
wordsandfeathers:
It’s February.
It’s now February.
Its been a year.
Its now been a whole year.
so,
Goodbye.
jhengaroo:
We may not end up together but still, I’m glad; that some of the best memories and experiences I had, I shared them with you.
frommysuitcaseheart:
and it’s february, again.
two years ago it began, last year i swore it’d end.
but now it’s february, again.
and god, am i frightened.
There’s a push to make people ashamed of being offended by anything, as if it...
– The 7 Stupidest Things That Make People Proud | Cracked.com (via upshot)
“Someone who offends you hasn’t ‘got’ you or ‘won’. What they said, and why, matters. They don’t get a free pass on being scrutinized on any of that just because they got a certain reaction.”
(via erikawithac)
I like the...
If you really want to rebel against your parents: outearn them, outlive them,...
– Henry Rollins (via sirmitchell)
Celebration when your plan is working? Anyone can do that. But when you realize...
– “Cold Tangerines” by Shauna Niequist (via julie911)
Slut” is how we vilify a woman for exercising her right to say “yes”....
– angels-and-angles
(via livelaughawesome)
But you didn’t have to cut me out
Make out like it never happened and that we...
– Gotye, Somebody That I Used To Know (via juneandafter)
xeno
dictionaryofobscuresorrows:
n. the smallest measurable unit of human connection, typically exchanged between passing strangers—a flirtatious glance, a sympathetic nod, a shared laugh about some odd coincidence—moments that are fleeting and random but still contain powerful emotional nutrients that can alleviate the symptoms of feeling alone.
You will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you never had the...
– Oscar Wilde (via suzywire)